Maren was born with a heart defect that causes "blue baby syndrome", because babies are born looking blue. Because of this, the nurses and doctors, and others, sometimes make a mention of her middle name and relate it to her heart condition. But Maren's middle name, Blue, was actually given to her many years before her birth. In 2005, when Jessica was pregnant with our oldest son, Oliver, we went through the naming process at great length for both boys and girls. At that time, Jessica and I agreed that if and when we had a girl, her middle name would be Blue. There is no one defining reason for choosing this name, rather than a family name, as we did for Maren's older brothers, Oliver Ellis and Ethan Christopher. It just felt right. Blue is a word with infinite potential reference points. For us, in no particular order, these include, but are not limited to: the sky; the sea; Joni Mitchell; Miles Davis; all blues music; Dylan's Tangled up in Blue and It's All Over Now Baby Blue; Dali's "Muchacha en la Ventana"; and, at least for me, Laker Blue.
Also, when Jessica was a baby, her family consisted of her mom and their dog named Blue. As legend has it, Blue would watch over baby Jessica on the beach while her mom surfed at Beacon's (surf spot in Leucadia). I guess we chose a family name after all.
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thanks David. This is so great, and so special, to hear how a baby is named. And the photos you and Jess have posted are also fantastic. Maren Blue, Maren Blue, we love you....
ReplyDeletedavid, read all the blog and the info is so great for all of us as well as other families with babies with heart defects. You are a wonderful teacher.
ReplyDeleteGreat blog. I love getting all of this information about Maren. It makes me feel a connection even across all of these thousands of miles. I am so excited to see the progression from Moderate/Severe to Mild/Moderate. She is obviously a real fighter and I just send all my positive energy in her direction. Your little men are just getting cuter and cuter. They remind me of Kirpal and Luca when they were younger...
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